Friday 8 January 2016

Success is not the key to happiness, Happiness is key to success...( Theodore Roosevelt)

            Yes its right and it took so many years of my life in understanding this simple basic 
             concept. I have seen people worrying and running after blindly for achieving success.
           success in each and every little step of life...its a terrible situation for a human nature. 
             HAPPINESS CAN NOT BE TRAVELLED TO,OWNED,EARNED,WORN OR
             CONSUMED.HAPPINESS IS A SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE OF LIVING        
             EVERY MINUTE WITH LOVE ,GRACE AND GRATITUDE ...........................

The Greeks associated happiness with virtue and ethics.The philosophers like Socrates and Aristotle believe that happiness is an activity rather than an emotional state.And that activity is not only good in itself but also directed towards virtuous ends . The happy person is virtuous...
     I think Happiness is all around us , really its every where in the universe.Its present in simple little things which happen daily in our life.My aim of life is to be happy all the time rather than to be successful. For me happiness is rising early in the morning,praying ,keeping my parents happy,helping or trying to help  every one around,reading any good book,gazing at the plants , animals, stars ,moon .cooking new dishes..reading new different drugs and medicines in pharmacology ..sharing it to my father..listening to DR Najeeb lectures ...going for a walk in evening and trust me its my daily routine in vacations but i am so happy and satisfied that I cant explain in words.. Happiness is not creating some thing very new or achieving some thing big but it can be founded by simple little things :) Life is so short to be worried and tensed about future ,past ...Start living in your present ...U will achieve every day happiness...Love every one around you and you will be loved back and it will create happiness
        MOTHER TERESA SAYS :
        
           IF U JUDGE PEOPLE ,YOU HAVE NO TIME TO LOVE THEM.KIND WORDS CAN            BE SHORT AND EASY TO SPEAK ,BUT THERE ECHOES ARE TRULY ENDLESS
  There is so much of good in each and person and all the creatures in the universe that we cant even measure . The thing is we have to wait with patience even if it take years..try to be as kind caring and loving to every one as you are to your self... ALL these will  must be reflected upon you as well ...and U will be a happy person :) 


             

Wednesday 6 January 2016

Every single act of goodness makes a difference.....

A man was standing near the sea shore absorbed in deep thoughts... after some time his eyes caught a sight of another man ... taking up the starfishes and throwing them in to the sea which were brought to the shore by a tide .... the man went to him and said : Why are u wasting your time on them , u know well that u cant take all of these in to the sea as these are so many along the shore ..it wont make any difference .... the man replied : although it may not make difference to all but it is making difference to each single fish I have throwed in sea and this one I  am going to throw now..


Your each and every act is going to make a difference in life of the other person... staying happy,polite,positive and good to every single entity in universe is a great great act ... the help is not only by physical and  materialistic  means but one of the greatest form of help is the spiritual help we all need. The world is in search of good ..positive ..appreciating ..loving ..caring humans. some of the quotations i want to  mention..
      TAKE CARE OF THE OTHERS AS YOU DO TO YOUR  INNER CHILD 

kind heart is a fountain of gladness
the more you love and care for others the more your soul norishes ...and its the best ever  feeling deep inside you  when your soul is nourishing 
u can change the world not by changing the world but by changing your self 
and the last thing i wanna say through this blog is 

               BE HAPPY ALWAYS AS HAPPY AS YOU CAN.... NO ONE KNOWS WHEN I AM  
                GOING TO DIE ... GET RID OF THE GRUDGES,FRUSTARATIONS,ANXIETY,
                 SELFISHNESS,AS SOON AS POSSIBLE AND ENJOY THE LIFE WITH A FEE 
                  BEAUTIFUL SOUL ....... :)      



Fear of suffering

The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... I have seen people terrified and afraid of doing this or that.be oz they think they may suffer from this or that .. but from my perspective as Paulo Coelho thinks the suffering itself is never too hard as the fear of it so we should be brave n strong enough to actually face it instead of being afraid of it...becoz the fear causes much more pain